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Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Keeping it Fresh: Kinky Photography

It's my last full day at the beach and all I can think about is how it has been much too long since I've been spanked. Since I've started seeing the Englishman on a regular basis, the almost two weeks that will pass before I see him again marks the longest time frame that we've gone without seeing each other. In the beginning of the relationship, the day after a spanking was particularly painful. Now, after three months I'm noticing that our emails have slowed down to a daily basis, with days skipped here and there. I'm enjoying the comforts of what a more intimate relationship has to offer, but I do miss the passion and excitement that comes with the new.

I really don't want the comfort level to reach that stage where it's now ok to pass gas, or suddenly we're on our phones during lunch. How do I keep things fresh? He's not complaining by any means, but I want to keep him on his toes. I want to stay shiny and new.

When he was away, I sent him lots of self-portraits... none of them spectacular or very creative since I am limited to timers and mirrors. I'm thinking of having some boudoir photos taken. The only issue is that I'd like to surprise him with them, but my gut tells me I should ask permission to bare my bottom to another man, no matter how platonic the shoot may be.

Advice, readers? What's a girl to do? Have you had professional photographs taken? What was it like?


6 comments:

  1. I haven't had professional photos taken but it sounds intriguing. I'd be thrilled if I was anywhere near as good at the self photography as you are :)

    Maybe the photo shoot doesn't have to be a surprise. Maybe it would heighten the experience if he knew. Maybe he could direct it. Maybe I'm easily carried away but I think you should do it. It's a good self love project. Maybe he stays interested in you if you stay interested in you.

    The pic with this is gorgeous.

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    1. Emen,

      Self-photography has become a necessity, though maybe the top in me likes to control the outcome...directing myself, if you will!

      I nixed the idea of a surprise and tE had LOTS of questions... will keep you posted!

      xo,
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  2. I understand about wanting to keep things shiny and new. I've never had professional pics done but I like your idea. Btw, loving those tights!! :)

    Dee x

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    1. Right, Dee? It's difficult to stay relevant, though I know that's a self-imposed idea. Initially, I was looking for thigh highs to use with a garter belt...but these seem so... spankable!

      xo,
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  3. I like Emen's idea of having him direct it, that could be pretty sexy, you wouldn't get in trouble for exposing in front of other guy, and he would get what he wants the most.

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    1. Julia,

      Welcome to the blog and thanks for stopping by! I think he would be much more open to the idea of directing the shoot. I'm sure I'll post a follow up as we've been going back and forth on the subject!

      xo,
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